“Shirley!!! They are unreal!! I’m feeling emotional looking through them. You captured us so beautifully and it is so special to me to have pictures with my family! That video is so wonderful too, I love how it takes you right back to the day. Thank you thank you!!! It’s the best mix of in the moment ones and ones of us all together. But those ones don’t look overly posed! Just natural. Love them!”
Read MoreIt has been on a my mind a lot the past couple weeks, how grateful I am to the grandparents of the world, especially my own parents. And apparently yesterday was National Grandparent Day and I missed it. Like many, I’ve had to lean in hard to parent/grandparent support during this pandemic. When childcare is abruptly swiped out from under your feet, that solid ground we all thought we were on the first month or two of 2020, I had to ask for help in a big way. My superhero mother came to the rescue and supported our family a ton March-August so I could continue working; pandemics aren’t great times to quit as a nurse, and although photography initially came to a standstill, I think the experience of the last six months has brought many people to desire capturing the phase of life they’re in even more.
Read MoreAdapting in the face of adversity - this feels like what we’re all trying to do right now during this pandemic. Some days I feel like I’m adapting well, and other days NOT. AT. ALL. I miss the “old” way of life, where Covid19 didn’t factor into almost every decision. It has taken away freedom, moments of calm, some level of certainty at least on a few things in life - and for many people it has taken away a whole lot more than that. At some point, I have a lot more to share. I have been hiding out, not blogging, not posting. Sometimes that’s because I’ve been in survival mode or feeling the weight of the world and more recently it’s because I’m so busy trying to get back to living (a very new way) and adventuring. I also haven’t been photographing much besides my own family, but I finally did a bunch of sessions recently which has gotten me re-inspired. So more photos and thoughts to come. For today, I just want to share a story of a family that seems full of resiliency.
Read MoreThis is my virtual hug to all the Mother’s out there. We’re living in hard times. Motherhood can sometimes feel isolating already - I find when I’m deep in the challenges, I feel like I’m the only one, and that other people must have this being a Mom thing so much more figured out than I do. I know in reality, we’re all in it together.
Read MoreAlright, so I'm about to get really real, but I want to share with you the journey I've been on, especially because the story ends with some really exciting news for this little photography business of mine! I also think my story is probably relatable to so many Moms out there. Every mother I know, goes through hard decisions after having kids about what the new life plan is. Because kids change everything and this motherhood journey is a wild one.
Read MoreThere is no doubt that I’ve found a new type of film I want to make more of, for my own families and others. I think a mini keepsake film is a great option anytime you think of something in your life that you know will be different in a year and that currently makes you smile - physical features of your child or how they talk or things they say. For me in this film, I wanted to capture Morgan’s long hair as a physical feature because I knew I was going to cut it for the very first time this week. And I loved how she talked about dancing “so hard” and that you could feel the passion just by watching the way she moves. I think this film captured all of that and it might always bring happy tears to my eyes when I watch it! I hope you enjoy as well…
Read MoreWelcome to the World baby Alden! This session was very special, not only because it was the first time doing an in-hospital photo session in Calgary, but also because it was my sister’s family. Watching my nephew meet his new baby sister for the first time pulled on every heartstring I have and it took everything in me to stay focused on the photographer role as opposed to Auntie role. Since then, I have luckily been able to catch up on baby cuddles.
Read MoreWhere do I even begin in my attempt to sum up the adventures of the past month?! Camping for 3 weeks with a 2 + 3 year old and covering over 3000 km wouldn’t be most people’s definition of a relaxing vacation, and yet it was by far one of the best experiences I’ve ever had.. And if it was one of the biggest adventures of my whole life, I cannot even imagine what it felt like for my girls. The sad thing for me, is that the ability to form long-term memories does not start until age 7. That means that in the short term, Morgan and Farrin will be able to hold on to these adventures, but that they’ll soon slip away. Without this family film and photos, they would not be able to remember anything about this trip into adulthood, let alone later into childhood. That makes this the most meaningful photography project I have ever completed.
Read MoreToday is my youngest daughter’s second birthday. You might ask me why I’m not writing about rainbows and butterflies then?! Well let me tell you. I had planned to. Today was going to be “special” and I am acutely aware of the mom guilt going on in my mind over this day not turning out perfect. But that is exactly why I wanted to write about this topic today because I am sure there are a lot of people that can relate to the fact that expectations on Moms these days are high!
Read MoreSmall and Mighty - I love this phrase. It so perfectly describes not only Melissa’s charity, but also all the babies that have ever been a part of it. And most of all, her own 3 beautiful children. I had so much fun photographing this amazing Calgary family and getting to know them a bit more. They are just settling into their new dream home that they’ve been working on for awhile, and it seemed like the perfect time to capture a Day in the Life.
Read MoreI am still on such a high from getting to capture this time in this family’s life. It felt special for a hundred and one reasons. This was a celebration of a baby boy about to turn 1, Mom’s birthday also approaching, and during the session we found out it was also international women’s day. But most of all this was a celebration of one of the biggest Mom milestones I know of so far - the last maternity leave coming to an end…
Read MoreYou could tell this family was embracing the phase of life they were in, soaking in the little joys like chasing each other around the house and adding so many laughs into the bedtime routine. It doesn’t sound easy having a professional photographer follow you around all day, especially when you have no idea what the day will bring, but people find it surprisingly easy in the end to go with the flow and do their usual thing. And through that comfort, I am able to capture what a genuine Day in the Life was like for this family in the phase of life they are in.
Read MorePart of my mission with Day in the Life of a Mom, is to help Moms see their own beauty within the messy reality of parenting through heartstring-tugging family films and photos. Through asking others to be real, and feel all the feels, I am constantly reminding myself to do the same. So let me share a bit about my journey, the challenges, and some of the lessons I’m learning along the way…
Read MoreFocusing on creating a film today, felt like self-care. And to be honest, it was one of those days that felt a bit hard (my husband and I never do well with feeling stuck inside). Without a family film packed full of beautiful sweet funny candid moments, I might have only remembered the temper tantrums, the runny noses, the nap battle, the supper time battle, and the flat out exhaustion I feel at the end of a long day. And yet, here I am, smiling from ear to ear, watching this film over and over again as I tear up over the beauty within this one simple, “boring” day inside…
Read MoreAnd just like that, 2019 is here. I think I have said this every year since having kids - how does a year fly by so fast. This year was even full of LOTS of long, long days. The kind filled with piles of parenting challenges like I’d never faced before (and piles of laundry too of course). I would say 2018 was my year of being immersed in motherhood, and sometimes feeling like I was drowning it in. I am starting to learn that parenting might not ever feel like something I can 100% succeed at, but at the same time I know that I truly gave it my all this year. Sometimes though (ok almost always) this was at the sacrifice of self-care. So that is where I’m starting 2019 - from a place of wanting to put self-care first again. I know SELF-CARE IS NOT SELFISH.
Read MoreThere is no doubt in my mind that little CJ will grow up with a thirst for adventure and an appreciation for the journey, as opposed to just the destination. Her four biggest role models in life so far, her parents and her godparents, are nothing short of amazing. It isn’t just about taking time out of their busy lives to explore, life itself is an adventure to them…
Read MoreBecause, here’s the thing, being home full-time with young kids is the hardest thing I have ever done in my whole life. But, as crazy as my kids make me sometimes, I love them more than anything else in this world. In the end I know I was right where I needed to be, loving my two little girls and giving them all of me. I think these films will always remind me that I should have no regrets!
Read MoreFor 2 years, of the last 2.5, I’d been on maternity leave from my nursing job, pouring my heart and soul into raising these two little girls. And sometimes, it felt like there was little to show for it, other than keeping us all alive at the end of every day. This phase of life came with a lot of challenges, having two toddlers in the house at once is definitely exhausting, and I was rarely feeling my best (at anything, but particularly parenting). But, I was absolutely trying my best all day every day.
Read MoreIt was beyond rewarding for me to hear this Mom’s words after viewing her film - especially around feeling my patience and understanding. I am always so aware of the fact that I am entering into people’s personal home life and that it can be feel VERY vulnerable. I ask you to be just as you are and embrace the chaos - and that sounds scary, but it is also completely satisfying and liberating. By just being real and trusting me to enter your world, I promise to show you the beauty in the chaos within your own family…
Read MoreThis documentary family session had a strange sense of calm considering there was a 1 year and a 3 year old involved! A 3 hour documentary session can be quite different than a full day or even half day session. It still portrays real life, the personalities of each family member and the interactions between them, but sometimes the chaos is a bit less….
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